Recovering from Disney!

13 Sep

Ah yes, Disneyland. We are Disney obsessed and decided to run away from reality and take a little September adventure down to sunny SoCal to hang with the Mouse. As a result, we are home mid-week and are now faced with the difficult task of returning to normalcy and school for all of us.

That normalcy included Mr. 2 Year Old rubbing a poo-covered butt on the bathroom wall. Did I mention he wasn’t wearing a diaper? Today I am thankful for bleach #blessed.

Anywho, while I’m plotting away the end of our first learning period and final chapter projects, I’ll share this amazing resource that is new (to me). Since most of our kids LOVE YouTube (I know its not just mine, don’t lie), go subscribe to It’s Okay To Be Smart. Joe Hanson, a PhD Biologist, teams up with PBS to present all sorts of science to the masses backed by evidence! The difference? Its presented in the same colorful, real-talk, kid accessible ways of all the beloved YouTubers of the grade school set. We’re currently browsing through a few videos on evolution and early humans to pair up with Nate’s social studies chapter on homonins. Way more engaging for him than a 3 hour documentary on the subject.

The School Year Cometh

23 Aug

Foreboding, right? In just a few short days the school year will officially begin for us. I’ve watched other parents kick off their years, the first day pictures, the new shoes, the initial teacher victories (and misses). Meanwhile, I’m alternating between filling water balloons and staring at my shiny new planner thinking, “I’m ready, right?”

I’ve always been home with the kids, but its nerve wracking to consider formally educating more than one. Now I have a middle schooler (how did this baby become a 6th grader so fast) and a kindergartener. I know deep down that I’m prepared. I’ve got a game plan, I’ve got the materials, I’ve got the support…yet something still feels missing.  I still feel like I’m forgetting something. I can’t screw up *that* badly, right?

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So with that being said, I’m tying up loose ends this week. Confirming extracurriculars, finishing meal prep, finishing my big cleaning/organizing projects, and trying to stay sane. Oh yeah, and I start my semester the same day as the kids. I mean, why not add a full-time college load to the mix? Seems legit!

The Socially Conscious Bookshelf

14 Aug

The newest school year is almost here for us, hooray! Is there anything more exciting than opening a fresh box of school supplies and educational materials? Ok, ok, I can think of a few things, but this is definitely in the top 10! I’m really excited about kicking things off, especially because it is the first year of officially homeschooling two kiddos! That’s right, I’m the proud parent of a 6th grader (OMG MIDDLE SCHOOL) and a kindergartener!

Let me tell you though, there have been some serious panic moments about starting off my little kindy girl on the right foot, I’m her first real schooling experience. Talk about pressure. One thing I am absolutely mandating are books that are socially conscious and promote people of color and women in roles that, frankly, are hard to always see. The world is a complex place and I really feel that little ones are capable to understand and act with compassion if given the right tools. That being said, I’ve loaded up on some really fantastic books for our home library to enhance her lessons and life. I did some real searching for titles that were written by women or POC, told their stories, and titles that featured a beautiful amount of diversity with important life lessons.

Lets see what made the cut! I would say these titles range from pre-K through 5th grade level.

 

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1. Ada Lovelace Poet of Science

Ada is credited to writing the first computer language! Using to coincide with her engineering portion of science class. Lots of promotion of science and math for women, talks about how it was not recommended for women in her time.

2. I Dissent, Ruth Bader Ginsburg Makes Her Mark

RGB has garnished mixed feelings, even among activists, but I still really enjoyed this. It talks a lot about her early life and career of bucking gender norms to get to her position and that it’s ok to not be a stereotypical girl.

3. Say Hello!

Really cute illustrations, a Latina girl walks through her city neighborhood and greets people and families in a variety of languages.

This was a random buy in-person, so I wasn’t able to vet the author. I did a little eye roll at the “urban” attempt by the girl’s friends in the park, a kid calls a dog “snoop dog”. Sooooo….lol other then that.

4. Peace is an Offering

Really beautiful book for any time about peace and kindness. Features a diverse range of people. It does briefly mention loss in a few different ways, but does not specifically mention death (implied loss of a pet and 9/11). Safe for secular families.

5. Last Stop on Market Street

Story about a boy and his grandma (POC) riding the bus through their city. The boy is a typical kid, wondering out loud why he doesn’t have things others have or why people are different (tattoos, blind). Grandma has answers that foster appreciation of everyone’s differences and uniqueness. Gratitude and compassion is a theme, the book ends with them helping at a community soup kitchen (not detailed, but pictured). New berry, Coretta Scott King, and Caldecott award winner, written by POC and reflected their life. Lots of diversity. Note: secular families, the book does start with them leaving church. That is the only religious content.


6. Hidden Figures: The True Story of Four Black Women and the Space Race

Same author as the New York Times bestselling novel, based on the novel and not the movie (the movie took some creative license). Very wordy for younger kids, but still really engaging! It discusses segregation outside of the storyline as well. Timeline of NASA and biographies of each woman in the end.

7. Mae Among the Stars

About the first black, female astronaut! It does include how she was discouraged by a teacher and mocked by classmates, but still achieved her dreams. Really beautiful artwork!

8. The Water Princess

Addresses communities without water, but still shows the beauty of the land and people. The story was based on an actual woman from a Burkina Faso that now runs charities to bring water to the people so that the women and girls have educational opportunities.

9. This Is How We Do It

Really cool book! They collected and illustrated the stories of real, modern kids in 7 different countries! They talk about their nicknames, languages, customs, families, etc.

The kids range between 7 and 11 years old, but all are pretty relatable. Nice to see similarities and differences across the globe!

10. If You Were a Kid During the Civil Rights Movement

This one is really heavy imo, but well done. It describes a fictional set of kids in Oklahoma during the civil rights era getting involved with activism. Each page is paired with a real life blurb to bring the fiction to life and show this is more than a story, these are real things that happened. They did not whitewash the fact that police brutality and violence against activists existed/exists.

11. Little People Big Dreams Series

I bought several in this series because they were adorable 😂 they had really great, little kid friendly versions of notable people. We own the books on Marie Curie, Amelia Earhart, and Frida Kahlo. We will definitely be buying more of these!

12. Ordinary People Change the World Series

Another really cute series on notable figures. We currently own the books on Harriet Tubman and Jane Goodall. These are so well done, another series we are going to need to invest in!

13. Nat Geo Wild Animal Atlas

This has really great photos and the book is pretty large. It would be good for reference or circle time/animal unit studies. It seems to be a favorite among homeschoolers!

14. Brave as Can Be

We already own another book in this series about feelings, so I was excited to find this one (especially since we’ve been dealing with monsters under the bed). Not specifically for school, but a good one!

15. Home

Tentative with this. They include realistic homes for animals and people alongside fictional homes and creatures The thing that gave me pause was some potential stereotypes, but I need to investigate more because they aren’t things I’m super confident on. I was hoping to see more realistic homes for the global community aspect. Could still be fun with the fantasy aspect, maybe art projects about fantastical homes!

16. One Family

This is really beautiful with all the different family types! One family is the theme, be it inter generational, interracial, small or large. Lots of diversity!

17. I am Enough

Ok so this made me cry. The book features all girls and is about how they are all valuable and deserving no matter who they are. It shows girls that are ballerinas, but also girls in karate. Science, math, art, and flowers. Another really nice part is the types of girls. So many ethnicities and skin tones represented, in addition to a girl in a wheelchair and a girl in hijab. The natural hair styles features are on point!!!

18. Women in Science: 50 Fearless Pioneers Who Changed the World

My best friend actually bought this for my kids as a gift. Its a fantastic, comprehensive book full of brilliant women, what’s not to love? They also have a Women in Sports book, we’ll be ordering that one soon!

19. A is for Activist

This is not your standard, ABC board book. This book highlights equity, social action, and resistance. It is definitely well loved in our family, I hope it will be for yours. They have an additional book that follow this format of activism for the tiniest ones on the front lines of change!

20. This Little Trailblazer: A Girl Power Primer

This is an adorable book full of women, historical and modern, that have accomplished great things in their lifetime. Obviously, I love a good girl power theme here and this is no different!

Are some of these topics heavy? Totally I really believe that glossing over historical atrocities does a huge disservice to them, so I’m so happy to have these trusted resources. What are some of your favorite woke kids books?

Curveballs

16 Dec

I only remember about blogging when I need to unload some stuff and I’m not sure where to go. Sometimes we all need to spill, right?

My beautiful, vivacious, incredibly strong toddler was recently diagnosed with Alopecia Areata. It has been two weeks since our diagnosis and it has progressed quite a bit. Every few days, she has new bald spots. Most start as dime-size spots, maybe some thinning around the edges. Within two weeks, we have seen those initial spots grow to around 2″ or larger.

Nothing we did caused this. It wasn’t something she ate, it wasn’t a product we used, it wasn’t due to stress or trauma. It just happened. The thing with Alopecia Areata is that there’s absolutely no predicting what will happen. The loss could stop at any point or progress as far as complete hair loss across her body. Her hair can grow back at any point. It can cycle between growth and loss. Either way, we just won’t know. Its an autoimmune disease with no cure and a handful of treatments that *might* work. My girl is young and tiny though, so those treatments are a bit much on her body right now. We’re holding off. That means we are just going to take it as it goes. We’re ok with that. She is ok with that. We’re positive and we know that she’s just going to be the same kickass kid she’s always been, just with a bit less hair. It has been picking up speed though.

I’ve been at an impasse as to whether or not I should discuss it across social media. Yesterday, I posted a picture of her with her hair pulled back with a headband. Maybe people chalked it up to a toddler mishap with a pair of scissors. Maybe they aren’t quite sure what to say yet. Maybe it really isn’t obvious to outside observers.She’s completely healthy, despite it being an autoimmune disease. Alopecia doesn’t hurt. It doesn’t itch or sting or burn. It has no effect on the rest of her body systems. We are so, so lucky that this diagnosis means we will hold our baby every day and watch her grow up and live a full life. Other parents aren’t so fortunate. My heart breaks for them. So please, if anything, know what I know.

This still doesn’t mean everyone gets it. For the most part, that’s ok. We learned because we had to, not everyone is working from the same knowledge base. I’m ok with questions. I’m not ok with assumptions. I am dreading the day someone makes a comment about being sorry that she is dying because she is bald and they assume she has cancer. I’m terrified of the time someone makes a negative comment about her looks because of balding and scraggly patches of hair that she is triumphantly rocking. Maybe with glitter. I don’t want to see my baby’s confidence break down because someone makes an insensitive comment. That is what terrifies me.

So please, please don’t treat her like she is sick. Don’t act as if she is fragile. Don’t be afraid to look at her, she’ll even tell you, “Alopecia takes my hair away. Its ok!” If you want, ask me about her hair loss. Ask for details about alopecia. Tell her she looks amazing. Challenge her to a dance off. Be full of love and optimism. She needs it. I need it. 

Life is good

5 Oct

Like really good. I think I may have decided that October is my favorite month. Apples, pumpkins, warm clothes and warm colors, chilly air, cinnamon, and excitement as the beginning of the holiday season creeps in. It is beyond amazing to be in California and have hints of actual seasons again. Florida was the worst for that. I actually own sweaters and have worn them. Magic.

Baby #3 is happily wiggling in my belly, a strong and active little dude that is already so loved. Big kid just celebrated his last birthday in the single digits and the little chick is continuing to blow us away by being Captain Precocious. Hubs is happy and busy at work. Homeschooling is phenomenal. I’ve got pumpkins roasting in the oven and yeah. This is my life. Its wonderful.

Everything is awesome!

10 Jun

Everything is cool when you’re living the dream 😉

Seriously though, California is great. It feels like home and things are amazing. We’re in a primo location. A few hours to Lake Tahoe, only half an hour to San Francisco or wine country. We’ve done so much exploring and we’ve only hit the tip of the iceberg. Farmers markets with (gasp) actual farmers, take note central Florida! No produce resellers here or bags that look like the ones sitting on the grocery store shelves.

The kids are thriving, too. Homeschool has been great, but we recently hit such a perfect stride! The “deschooling” process was rough, but we got our Oak Meadow curriculum after the move and he has jumped in with full force. I decided to buy the second grade and third grade. Even though he has technically been in second grade this year, we had some time off during the move and I feel like certain areas could use a boost. We’ll be working through the second grade package from now until the fall and then picking up with third grade right on time.

Let me tell you, Oak Meadow is fantastic for the big kid! Between his SPD, reluctance to read, but huge love of details and learning…its just perfect. His confidence has skyrocketed and he is choosing to read instead of it being a chore. We are really glad to have found OM. The tiny child just turned two, but insists on doing school with us, so naturally she is included! I’m a fan of Montessori for the younger set, so I’ve set her up with some work. It is seriously exciting to see them excited to get down to business in the classroom 🙂

An inexpensive, health-conscious Easter basket for a 1-year-old

1 Apr

Such a sweet idea from a friend! What are in you Easter baskets?

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Inexpensive, healthy Easter basket for 1-year-old

Easter is such a beautiful holiday for what it truly means, and although the connection to bunny rabbits and plastic eggs is a little blurry, it is such a fun tradition to receive a basket and scavenge for pastel hidden treasure. If you have a toddler, you may echo my frustration for the “cookie-cutter” baskets with feeble, small plastic parts and sugar packed together in cute shapes like baby chicks and sweet chubby bunnies. I have always enjoyed anything custom-made because it shows the effort and consideration given to the gift, but custom doesn’t have to mean expensive. I was able to run out to Target and Walmart (they were conveniently in the same parking lot) and grab everything I needed for a very low-cost.

I thought I would share in case any other mom was looking for a little Easter basket inspiration for their little one:

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Big changes!

14 Jan

I have an incredibly legitimate reason for being absent! WE’RE MOVING! So long Florida, hellloooooooo California!

Hubs has accepted a killer job offer in San Francisco and we couldn’t be happier. I’m staying super positive and trying to not pull my hair out. He’s shipping off without me and the kids to start work and we’re tasked with getting the house packed up and ready to rent/sell. Deep breaths! I feel like singing, “We Shall Overcome”! Seriously though, it will be a trying month-ish, but I’m ready to take on the adventure of moving cross country to a hugely diverse, amazing city.

So! All you people snooping around, share your favorite San Francisco tips! We’re house hunting in east bay to give the kids a yard (something they’ve never had), but plan on exploring everything. I’ve got my fingers crossed for comments, don’t disappoint!

This is why I’m horrible at blogging

24 Dec

I don’t update. Really. I’m quite awful at keeping track of this thing! We’ve been up to all sorts of shenanigans. Science experiments, LegoLand field trip, holiday hubbub and all sorts of good stuff. I’ll break it all down for you soon. We’ve also started working on Montessori-ing our spaces for the wee one, so that’s fun! I’ve got loads of ideas to share! Be on the look out 🙂

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Halloweenies: Part 1

31 Oct

Ah, October 31. The one day where it is acceptable to pretend you are something you aren’t, go door to door and harass strangers for treats. If you haven’t heard of it yet (helllooooo are you under a rock), consider having more than just candy tonight! The Teal Pumpkin Project is in full force and is a cause near and dear to our family. A teal pumpkin signifies your house has non-food treats for trick or treaters that suffer from food allergies. Stickers, pencils, vampire teeth, erasers…there are tons of options! Lets keep the fear on Halloween for make-believe monsters and not actual deadly experiences 🙂

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If you are fresh out of pumpkins to paint, you can print out an awesome sign like mine HERE or if you are just offering non-candy treats, try THIS sign.

I’ve got Minnie Mouse and Harry Potter hanging out with me tonight. Part 2 will come after sundown, lets hope I can get some great pics!